I babysit two girls, ages 11 and 6, and yesterday we went out to lunch together. The three of us were sitting eating lunch when the little one let out a large burp. Her face turned red with embarrassment and she started to uncontrollably giggle, her sister followed in with the laughter. I laughed as well and asked her "What was so funny?" She responded by saying, "I acted like a boy." I was kind of surprised by her answer, I expected her to just say, "I burped!"
But I got to thinking...
Everyone burps but if you were asked to put burping under a male or female trait it would no doubt be male. Burping is something that we socially link to males.
The little girl didn't feel embarrassed from burping, she felt embarrassed because she did something she thought was boyish.
So in conclusion this is really just a cute story to illustrate what we have been discussing in class regarding gender and social constraints.
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This is a very cute story :) Its stunning how we as a society start at a very young age putting certain characteristic in certain gender groups.
ReplyDeleteIt's amazing how easy it is to get a kid to giggle. Just say any word that describe a bodily function, the noisier or smellier the better. My son's favorite bedtime book is "The Gas We Pass: The Story of Farts". It does describe the digestive tract and how a variety of animals process gas, so it's very informative. He reads it to his friends and they all laugh hysterically. I guess it is a boy thing!
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